Italy (part 2)
Venice, Italy
Venice, Italy, is a unique city built on a lagoon, famous for its canals, gondolas, and stunning architecture. In Venice you step back in time with its romantic atmosphere and historic landmarks. Once a powerful maritime republic, it remains a popular tourist destination and a vibrant cultural center.
What I’d Change—and Why I Wouldn’t Change a Thing: Reflections on Our Three-Week Trip to Italy
May–June 2025
Our three-week journey through Italy was unforgettable, breathtaking landscapes, rich history, incredible food, and a sensory overload in the best (and occasionally sweatiest) way. From Rome to Venice, we saw it all. But now that I’ve had time to reflect, there are five things I would definitely do differently next time… and yet, I wouldn’t change a thing about how we did it.
5 Things I’d Do Differently
1. Travel in March/April Instead of May/June
By the time we finished our trip, Italy was cooking. We hit 95°F with 60% humidity. Combine that with lots of walking, sightseeing, and some mild ankle swelling, and it became clear, spring comes early in Italy, and May/June might as well be summer. Next time, we’re opting for March or April for more comfortable temps and fewer crowds.
2. Pack Just Two Pairs of Shoes
I brought too many shoes. Lesson learned. You really only need one pair of everyday walking shoes and one alternate (a sandal or something dressier). I ended up wearing the same pair almost the whole time anyway. Bonus; fewer shoes means more room for souvenirs (or just a lighter bag).
3. Stick to Carry-On Only
Dragging a large checked roller bag across Italy, through airports, train stations, cobblestone streets, and up countless staircases was a serious workout. Next time, it’s carry-on roller bag and backpack, no exceptions. The convenience of not checking bags, plus the freedom to move quickly, is worth every ounce of packing restraint.
4. Dress to Blend In
I packed like I was heading to a casual summer barbecue, shorts, T-shirts, tank tops. Meanwhile, Italians were floating around in breezy linen, looking effortlessly chic. I stuck out like a sweaty tourist (because I was). Next time, it’s all about linen pants, flowy tops, and dresses. It’s more comfortable and helps you blend in with the locals.
5. Stay Put Longer
We stayed in eight different places over 20 days. It was amazing to see so much, but by the end, we felt like we were constantly packing, unpacking, and catching trains. Next time, I’d choose one home base per week, and explore from there. It’s less hectic and gives you a chance to really feel a place instead of just visiting it.
Why I’m So Glad We Did It Just the Way We Did
Even with the lessons learned, I wouldn’t go back and change a thing about our trip. Why? Because we saw so much. Rome, Salerno, Cava de’ Tirreni, Maiori, Cinque Terre, Milan, Reggio Emilia, Parma, Rignano sull’Arno, Florence, Bologna, and Venice. Each place added something unique and unforgettable to our journey.
We made mistakes, sure, but that’s how you figure out how you like to travel. What pace works for you. What kind of lodging makes you feel at home. What clothes keep you comfortable while also helping you feel part of the place you’re visiting. It was a beautiful kind of learning, the kind you can only get by doing.
I’m beyond grateful for the opportunity to experience another country for three entire weeks, and even more grateful that I got to do it all with my amazing husband. One of my most cherished memories? Sitting quietly in Cava de’ Tirreni, where almost no one spoke English, just listening. Watching families gather. Hearing the rhythm of everyday life. No guided tour, no fancy itinerary, just observing, and feeling the heartbeat of a culture.
If you’re planning a trip of your own, make time to sit, listen, and watch. It might just become your favorite part, too. Italy is magical. And so is the journey of discovering how you like to experience it.
Grazie mille!